Pushkin and the Moscow bombing

Goethe predicted the heavy industry of cosmetics and plastic surgeries in 'Faust'.

In the same way,Pushkin predicted the intractability of high-ground tribes of the Russian Empire.
What eluded both  in their writings is the fact that women,once convinced for the necessity or the right cause of an action,will never step back and will become the most fierce avengers.
Losing your (beloved) husband,your son or even worse both in a conflict leaves women in a state of grief which is identical to falling into a black hole.
Nothing can escape it, not even light: it's the black hole of hatred,the black hole of losing your identity for ever.

Given that women's societal status in the Islamic world (alas!not only there) is defined in correlation with men,
there 's no doubt that 'black widows' will continue to play a dramatic role on the Russian political scene,simply because they have nothing to lose.
Suggestions to appease their despair and hatred?
Ordinary Russian women who have also lost  their beloved ones in conflicts can take a step towards the right direction.
Ordinary Russian women who grieve without becoming suicide-bombers can make a whole lot of difference if they speak up.
Why doesn't the Kremlin ask for their aid?